Elizabeth S ([identity profile] hermionesviolin.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] hermionesviolin 2007-09-22 12:20 am (UTC)

Yeah, I wish I could offer concrete things.

I often think of the poem my mother sent me years ago: "What I Learned from My Mother" by Julia Kasdorf. The full text is here (http://hermionesviolin.livejournal.com/167703.html), but the theme is encapsulated in this excerpt:
I learned that whatever we say means nothing,
what anyone will remember is that we came,
I found it very comforting and helpful because I am such a word-oriented person but so often I have no words. I've come to really value the power of mundane practical offerings and also of just being present.

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