Yeah, friendslocked bitching is I think much like bitching to friends in meatspace.
I think definitely it's okay to not share EVERYTHING with one's S.O.; I just get weirded out by the extent that people compartmentalize sometimes 'cause my fannishness (porn included) so informs how I engage with any media text, so like how would I go about hiding it? Plus I'm just not v. good at compartmentalizing :)
And absolutely people rub off on each other. Which is much with the good. Though I am always guarding myself against EXPECTATIONS that I can "change" someone. The rubbing off should be a happy bonus :)
My October is filling up, but one of my workmates was mentioning an MFA exhibit on Parisian fashion that's starting Nov. 12, so maybe we could make an MFA date sometime this winter. Or we could totally do a less structured thing just wandering around Boston or chilling at my apartment or whatever.
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Date: 2006-09-30 05:31 am (UTC)I think definitely it's okay to not share EVERYTHING with one's S.O.; I just get weirded out by the extent that people compartmentalize sometimes 'cause my fannishness (porn included) so informs how I engage with any media text, so like how would I go about hiding it? Plus I'm just not v. good at compartmentalizing :)
And absolutely people rub off on each other. Which is much with the good. Though I am always guarding myself against EXPECTATIONS that I can "change" someone. The rubbing off should be a happy bonus :)
My October is filling up, but one of my workmates was mentioning an MFA exhibit on Parisian fashion that's starting Nov. 12, so maybe we could make an MFA date sometime this winter. Or we could totally do a less structured thing just wandering around Boston or chilling at my apartment or whatever.