>One thing I've found really strange about being around these married >people is how difficult their marriages seem to be.
they are. no question about it. imagine it, you are committed to someone, lumps and all...yours and theirs, every single thing you do affects one another, and, as with all relationships, there are days when you are just in completely different moods and you're wondering if the other person just neglected to mention the fact that they are from Jupiter or something.
but on the flip side, it's very comforting to always be with your best friend, to know that they are thinking of you, that you'll come home and tell eachother about this or that knowing that he/she'll totally *get* it, or at least get why it affected you like it did. it's "choosing your battles," knowing the things that are worth struggling over, and those struggles that will just never get resolved.
so yeah, it's hard. but worth it. IMHO, that is.
i was thinking of you the other day, that we walked in the snow on my birthday weekend. i can't even fathom the fact that that could conceivably happen again a month from now...
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they are. no question about it. imagine it, you are committed to someone, lumps and all...yours and theirs, every single thing you do affects one another, and, as with all relationships, there are days when you are just in completely different moods and you're wondering if the other person just neglected to mention the fact that they are from Jupiter or something.
but on the flip side, it's very comforting to always be with your best friend, to know that they are thinking of you, that you'll come home and tell eachother about this or that knowing that he/she'll totally *get* it, or at least get why it affected you like it did. it's "choosing your battles," knowing the things that are worth struggling over, and those struggles that will just never get resolved.
so yeah, it's hard. but worth it. IMHO, that is.
i was thinking of you the other day, that we walked in the snow on my birthday weekend. i can't even fathom the fact that that could conceivably happen again a month from now...