At Coffee Hour today, someone asked me if I had upcoming plans I was looking forward to, and I talked about the Wicked Queer film festival.
Person: "Oh, are you a big film person?"
I'm not particularly (which I said some words about), but HOURS later it occurred to me that the perfect response would have been: "No; I'm just a big queer person."
(I mean, this also-queer person already knows I'm queer -- and pedantically I'm only medium-sized š -- but still, missed opportunity...)
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I posted this on FB, which has so far led to:
Abby:
my mom: "Medium sized queer person who occasionally enjoys movies"
Person: "Oh, are you a big film person?"
I'm not particularly (which I said some words about), but HOURS later it occurred to me that the perfect response would have been: "No; I'm just a big queer person."
(I mean, this also-queer person already knows I'm queer -- and pedantically I'm only medium-sized š -- but still, missed opportunity...)
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I posted this on FB, which has so far led to:
Abby:
I think āElizabeth is a big movie* personā is an early misconception I had, largely because we had a lot of conversations about queer and feminist/womanist critiques of media.
*I always feel uncomfortable using the word āfilmā to talk about movies, since many of them arenāt even shot on film anymore. I blame [different person] for instilling in me this particular pedantry.
my mom: "Medium sized queer person who occasionally enjoys movies"